
Perception
A young woman was about to
finish her first year of College. Like so many others her age she considered
herself to be very liberal and was for distribution of all wealth. She
felt deeply ashamed that her father was a rather staunch conservative which
she expressed openly.
One day she was challenging her
father on his beliefs and his opposition to higher taxes on the rich and more
welfare programs. In the middle of her heart felt diatribe based upon the
lectures she had from her far left professors at her school, he stopped her
and asked her point blank, how she was doing in school.
She answered rather haughtily
that she had a 4.0 GPA, and let him know that it was tough to maintain. That
she had to study all the time, never had time to go out and party like other
people she knew. She didn't even have time for a boyfriend and didn't really
have many college friends because of spending all her time studying. That she
was taking a more difficult curriculum.* Her father listened and then asked,
"How is your friend Mary."
She replied, "Mary is
barely getting by", she continued, "all she has is barely a 2.0
GPA" adding, "and all she takes are easy classes and she never
studies" But to explain further she continued emotionally, "But Mary
is so very popular on campus, college for her is a blast, she goes to all the
parties all the time and very often doesn't even show up for classes because
she is
too hung over."
Her father then asked his
daughter, "Why don't you go to the Dean's office and ask him to deduct a
1.0 off your 4.0 GPA and give it to your friend who only has a 2.0." He
continued, "That way you will both have a 3.0 GPA and certainly that
would be a fair equal distribution of GPA."
The daughter visibly
shocked by the fathers' suggestion angrily fired back,
"That wouldn't be fair! I worked really hard for mine, I did without and
Mary has done little or nothing, she played while I worked real hard!"
The father slowly smiled and
said, "Well, I see that you are really a conservative when it directly
involves what you have earned but liberal with the attainment of others".
